When it comes to women’s orgasms, Think Outside the Box! Let’s start the story back in the 1950′s. It was the era of strict social convention. Inside the bedroom, wives did their womanly duties, providing sex for the husband at his demand. Sounds harsh, but this is the way life was until the 1960′s when woman’s rights became forefront of society and sexual freedom and exploration was becoming a hot topic. After that, it was a new way of living. The “sex life” also went through evolution. Due to the addition of female magazines with huge sex tip sections, women learned more about their bodies. It was sex-ed from a newsstand.

Women learned the difference between a clitoral and internal orgasm. Where is where the title comes into play. “Think outside the box” A big pun – and implied! During sexual intercourse, women greatly benefit from clitoral stimulation. Think of the clitoris like a little iceberg – the tip sticks out while the base is hidden within the body. A highly concentrated pile of nerves that flow around the entire pelvic area, clitoral stimulation has a higher response rate then vaginal penetration alone.

Traditionally, say “sex toy” and women assume “vibrator”. Of course a vibrator feels nice but there’s a certain magic quality about a clitoral stimulator, or bullet vibrator that offers a massive impact to the quality of an orgasm. Specifically made to be hold over the clitoris, these magical sex aids are best used during lovemaking, it’s a sex toy that TheAdultToyShop.com insists every woman own. Once you know the anatomy of the clitoris, it all makes sense.

Several sexual positions can work with a bullet, but these 2 are worth trying first:

1. Missionary
Common sense would not assume missionary it not one to try – there’s no room between bodies. True – but gravity is your friend here, plus you don’t need to move the bullet. Slip your hand between the two bodies and hold the bullet over the hot spot with a finger. The force of gravity from your partner’s body is going to push it down harder, asking the vibration much more intense. Definitely a position to try.

2. Doggie Style
You are free to move the bullet to and fro, circle it around the clitoris. Press it like a button. Some small sex toys are cup-shaped, having a concave dip instead of rounded top. Think of a bathtub for the clitoris, cradling it perfectly increasing the contact. The issue with doggie style is you’ll need to keep one hand in use at all times so the best place for this encounter would be on a bed with pillows propped under you chin or under the chest holding you up. Best part, the other hand can be free to manipulate the labia, holding it open exposing the clitoris allowing it to take the brunt of all the vibration.

Alternatively, using a bullet is perfect for times when you’re all alone. It’s very easy to orgasm without penetration at all, however you’ll experience a “craving” like feel inside the vagina when the muscles clench. It’s quite liberating to be able to enjoy self pleasure, recall the housewives of the 1950′s they never had the erotic possibilities like we do today. We should be thankful for our sex toys and the freedom to express our sexuality!